Can I be honest? As a caregiver, my life changed when hers did. This is a new season, and I am learning as I go. As we navigate this journey, my priorities are changing. We have hard conversations and work through embarrassing moments. As I hit the trail for a 30-minute walk yesterday, a wave of anger hit me hard and fast in the gut. Praying, walking, and listening with each step I sense God crafting a new syncopated rhythm for my life.
I ask myself, “Is it well with you, Alida?” No, I am not well. I’m tired and anxious from all the changes. When I get home from my walk, I set aside my phone and pick up my Bible; now is not the time for scrolling. It’s time to lock in.
Dear friend, I hope all is well with you and that you are as healthy in body as you are strong in spirit. 3 John 1:2 NLT
Praying, walking, and listening
Well-being has no finish line—it’s a daily rhythm of intimacy with God. As I ponder my well-being, the health of my body, and the strength of my spirit, a voice in my head says, “To care for others, I must care for myself.” Intimacy with the Lord is my oxygen mask. Time with Him comes first. What lies ahead is unknown, but the One I walk this path with knows the way. Because He is the Way. And I trust Him.
In this new role, I choose connection over chaos, discipline over distraction, and grace over guilt. I must be honest when I’m not well, so that I will become well as I forge a newfound rhythm with God. Because well-being has no finish line—it’s a lifestyle of walking hand in hand with the One who knows the way. If you have wisdom to share as a caregiver, please let me know. You can leave a comment or send an email. And as always, pray for me, as I pray for you.
*For those of you who prayer walk, ask yourself this question and be honest as you pour out your heart to God while you walk. And for this week’s screensaver click here.